Key facts
- Local is valuable
- Face-to-face support can be more personal
- Varies by area
- Services differ between councils and regions
- Often free
- Many local services are free or low-cost
Why local services matter
National helplines are valuable, but local services can offer:
- Face-to-face support
- Knowledge of local resources
- Ongoing relationships with support workers
- Practical help with local housing, benefits, and services
- Groups where you can meet others locally
- Support for children in your area
Finding local domestic abuse services
Women’s Aid directory
Search for services in your area at: womensaid.org.uk/domestic-abuse-directory
This lists:
- Local refuges
- Outreach services
- Counselling and support
Ask the National Domestic Abuse Helpline
Call 0808 2000 247. They can tell you what’s available in your area and help you make contact.
Your local council
Most councils have information about domestic abuse services in their area. Search “[your council] domestic abuse” or look under community safety or family services.
Local authority support
Housing
If you’re homeless or at risk of homelessness due to domestic abuse:
- Contact your council’s housing department
- They have a duty to help you
- Priority need status may apply
Social services
If you have children and need support:
- Children’s social services can provide family support
- They can help with child protection concerns
- Contact through your council
Council tax
You may be entitled to:
- Single person discount if now living alone
- Council tax support if on a low income
NHS services
Your GP
Your GP can:
- Provide medical care for injuries
- Refer you to mental health services
- Document abuse (useful for legal proceedings)
- Signpost you to local support
- Provide sick notes if you can’t work
NHS Talking Therapies
Free counselling through the NHS. Search “NHS talking therapies [your area]” or self-refer through the NHS website.
Waiting times vary by area.
Health visitors
If you have young children, your health visitor can provide support and signpost local services.
Citizens Advice
Your local Citizens Advice can help with:
- Benefits and tax credits
- Housing and homelessness
- Debt advice
- Employment issues
- Legal questions
Find your local office: citizensadvice.org.uk
Some offer appointments; others are drop-in only.
Law centres
Free legal advice on:
- Family law
- Housing
- Welfare benefits
- Employment
Not every area has a law centre. Find one at: lawcentres.org.uk
Local counselling services
Many areas have low-cost counselling provided by:
- Local charities
- Community organisations
- Training institutions (supervised trainee counsellors)
Ask your GP for recommendations or search “[your area] low-cost counselling.”
Support groups
Divorce and separation groups
Search for:
- “[your area] divorce support group”
- Groups run by Relate (some centres offer groups)
- Church or faith-based groups
- Community centre notice boards
Single parent groups
- Gingerbread (national organisation, some local groups)
- Local Facebook groups for single parents
- Children’s centre groups
Mental health groups
- Mind groups (some local Mind branches run groups)
- NHS support groups
- Peer support groups
Children’s services
Schools
Your children’s school can:
- Provide pastoral support
- Refer to school counsellors
- Be aware of the home situation
- Make adjustments if needed
Tell them what’s happening so they can support your children appropriately.
Children’s centres
For families with young children. Offer:
- Parenting support
- Activities and groups
- Signposting to other services
Youth services
For teenagers. Varies by area but may include:
- Youth clubs
- Counselling services
- Support workers
How to find services
Online searches
Try searching:
- “[your area] divorce support”
- “[your area] domestic abuse service”
- “[your area] family support”
- “[your area] counselling”
- “[your council] community services”
Ask around
- Your GP
- Health visitor
- School
- Citizens Advice
- National helplines (they often know local services)
- Social media local groups
Libraries
Your local library may:
- Have information about local services
- Host support groups
- Provide free internet access
- Offer a quiet space
Making the most of local services
Be proactive
Services are often stretched. You may need to:
- Call multiple times
- Follow up on referrals
- Ask specifically for what you need
Combine services
No single service does everything. You might use:
- A local domestic abuse service for safety planning
- Your GP for mental health support
- Citizens Advice for benefits
- A counsellor for emotional support
Give feedback
If a service is helpful (or not), let them know. This helps improve services for others.
Services vary by area
What’s available depends on where you live. Some areas have excellent local services; others have fewer options. If local services are limited, national helplines and online support can fill gaps.Start with a national helpline
If you're not sure where to start locally, call a national helpline. They can often tell you what's available in your area.
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